More on this later… Fact is, the dating pool is a highly saturated market — your ultimate goal is to position yourself apart from the rest.
The chickpea is neither a chick nor a pea.
Now comes the hard part, I always wait a while, normally till the evening if I get a match through the day or the next morning if it happens at night, it sounds lame but its the old play it cool thing.
Before we hit the good stuff, think of the first impression you make to be the same as the marketing behind a product.
This is the easiest way to get a conversation going.
Even the most out-going and confident guys tend to share these common difficulties.